FRIENDSHIP!!!!!!Hmm just had a really bad experince with a SOMEONE SO DEAR TO ME,A GOOD PAL who Wanted to end it all and just gave it to me in a way that Dat all dnt Seem right..Nope she dnt Misunderstand me or nything.She just felt a Little isolated for reasons m unawars of..She was a darling..N i stil love her.Was Unique in her own ways..I wonder what did i do to her that she quoted things like"I am asking you for forgivness and the other two also, I just want to end it all in NICE WAY"..wow..u think its a nice way of ending it up..Give me a Break Oh ya...N guess what...I had no tiffs with her and she makes this GOOD BLESSED decesion.She had isssues with My other frnds for sum personal reasons.But she thought of me as the same.They were not wrong in what they did, nor was she.But surely her move was....I so dint desereve that.I Miss her so m writing bout her...buhh m sure situations compeld her to do the same..Al day long, just thinkin....What was she doing with us for the last 3 years if she had to condemn us the way she did it yesterday.?God...I culdnt belive my ears..What was i hearin??was i hearin things that I SO did'nt expect to hear...ya may be thats why they seemed so bitter.Had the best time of my life with These three pals of mine whom I made friends with in St.Xaviers College during my Junior college..Life was soo beautiful and ya it does seem beauiful now when I think of them, thier presence in my life and soo..the Bestest things eva given to ME... But I am sure it wuldnt be the same ever again in relaity..for all that she said and all that she thinks bout us..about ME...She stil talks to me, oh ya hugged me few days back too.But wt hurts me Nothin same Like before...U, me, she n her..Nope...Not that people dont change..they certainy do...Everyting now seems to be soo FAKE to me about her..Its better to have loved and lost than not have loved at all..so apt, i think..... N now i wonder whic of them am i gonna last til the end with???yeah this question hits my mind every now n then ....
Well, To brief you with my Topic FRIENDSHIP, I would love to start with the story of three Nicest and bestest frineds ..It was Abigail, Sharon, Carol and Rachel.Abigail was the Kid of the group.A very lovable person, It was difficult to think she ever knew what Pride, Attitude or even Swears were.Just soo innocent.Sharon was girl who if you met for the First time would Judge her as being really very Rude and Crude and everything.The Worst on Exteriors the, Best at heart.Though there were times where one sufferd from Mood swings and rude behaviour, most of the moments were just so beautiful and happy..even the tiffs and Trials that the 4 of them together faced made taste Life and they did smile when they al thought of it later..hmm Carol was someone who carried pride and was very emotional by heart.. Getting angry for really silly reasons, was her biggest weakness.N Rachel was the most caring of al of the 4.Did not miss on doing nythin to end up petty fights and bring bac the same days...Wuld shed her tears to forgive and go long ways to to be a better person....N was sum1 who used her heart n not her mind most of the time..But this time it failed.And Rachel like usual did her very best to save this frndship, butt it dnt work.Ego clashes, personal biases, Judgemental attitudes...Ended the very existence of the 2 yr relationship..Not many tiffs did theyhave in their college yrs, But wen they did..they did try to understand each other and forget it.Sharon wuld not bend ways....Rachel wuld try to mend ways.And thus things went on...Accepting one buh not tellin her what she dnt like of her...Til the day when things blew outta proportion for the very reason that nobody actually let each other know their weaknees and just gave in to verbal praises....When finally a day came when the kid of the family culdnt take in any more cuz she felt she was putt down by the rest.Tht was not the case, that was what she thought.And thus came the Final end...N she decided to quit leavin the family in bits...cuz They missed her...N so did she..Buhh she nvr turned back to them, cuz she felt she had beedn hurt many a times and they failed to eva understand her way...sad.....but true..
It aint al that easy to mainatin relationships..it takes Patience and Understanding..Its better to not give in to many praises rather corrct someones faults and help them be a better person.The main reason WHY things didnt work......